Lifestyle Definitions

 

• AC/DC - Bi-Sexual Person(s)

• Arts - Fetishes

• B&D or BD - Bondage and Discipline

• Back Door - Anal Sex

• BBW - Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.

• BDSM - Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism

• BI or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.

• Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited Bisexual experience.

• Bondage - The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure.

• Can Entertain - Someone that has a private location and is willing to invite others over.

• Can Travel - Someone that is willing to travel, generally beyond an hours drive.

• CD - Cross Dresser - Person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally used by men.

• Clean - Diseases and Drug Free

• Cougar - An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.

• Couple - Two people, generally one male, one female.

• CPL - Couple

• Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris

• DD - Clean, disease and drug free.

• Discipline - Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.

• DP - Double Penetration, simultanious Vaginal and Anal.

• DVP - Double Vaginal Penetration - Two penises in one vagina.

• Entertain - Can Entertain

• Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity.

• F - Female

• Fellation - Oral stimulation of the penis

• Fetish - Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.

• Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.

• FWB - Friends With Benefits: Friends who have casual sex without any kind of commitment.

• Gay - Homosexual, generally a male, but not always.

• GBM - Gay Black Man

• GWM - Gay White Male

• Heterosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.

• Homosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.

• Hotwife - A happily married woman that enjoys having sex outside the marriage with the full support of her husband. The husband is generally monogamous with his wife and may or may not watch her with other men.

• Hung - One with a large penis

• HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

• ISO - In Search Of

• Lesbian - Gay women.

• LTR - Long Term Relationship

• M - Male

• MBC - Married Black Couple

• MBiC - Married Bi Couple

• MILF - Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck

• Moresome - More than four.

• MWC - Married White Couple

• NSA - No Strings Attached

• Off-Premise - A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.

• P/P - Photo/Phone

• S&M or SM - Sadism/Masochism

• Safe - Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.

• SBF - Single Black Female

• SBiF - Single Bi Female

• SBiM - Single Bi Male

• SBM - Single Black Male

• SGL - Single

• Sodomy - Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.

• Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

• STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease.

• STR8 or STR or Straight - Straight, a Heterosexual person.

• Swap or Swapping - Two couples exchanging partners

• SWF - Single White Female

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• SWM - Single White Male

• Unicorn - Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.

• Versatile - Bisexual

• Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching.

• Water Sports - Urination involving sexual stimulation